Feel supported to learn and grow
OK, you made some mistakes. You hurt some people. You are still a human being who has value. If you regret your actions and want to improve yourself, you are showing that you are still a good person. Don’t let this story define you.
Doing the work
What is involved in “doing the work?” There is no one-size-fits-all solution. Every person’s journey is unique. Some elements may include:
- Embodiment – Developing somatic and emotional awareness.
- Self-Awareness – Examining your attitudes, patterns, motivations, and behaviors.
- Empathy – Recognizing the impact of your actions on others.
- Ownership – Taking responsibility, offering genuine apologies, and making meaningful repairs.
- Education – Deepening your understanding of consent, trauma, attachment, and power dynamics.
- Skill-Building – Strengthening your consent, communication, and boundary-setting practices.
- Self-Trust – Rebuilding confidence in your ability to navigate relationships with integrity.
- Accountability – Establishing a structure for long-term awareness and change.
- Commitment – Defining personal goals and taking actionable steps.
- Reintegration – Finding a grounded and ethical path forward.
What are the benefits of Consent Coaching?
Support on this personal growth journey has multiple layers of value:
Follow a clear roadmap and structured process. Prevent getting stuck in guilt, confusion, or avoidance
Develop tools and skills with hands-on exercises and real-time feedback to improve your consent, communication, and relational skills.
Keep your work in integrity and on track.
Benefit from an objective external perspective that challenges blind spots, ensures you follow through on self-reflection, learning, and behavior changes and keeps you committed to the work.
This work is not easy. A compassionate guide can help you face the challenges.
Feel supported in this journey.
What is a successful outcome?
Every person’s situation and needs are unique. Some examples of possible outcomes:
- Deeper self-awareness
- Greater emotional intelligence
- Increased self-confidence
- More comfortable and less anxious relating
- Better, more wholesome and consensual interactions
- More fulfilling, trusting, expansive relationships
- Healing and repair from past consent accidents
- Restored trust from communities and leaders
- Safer and more inclusive communities
- Integrity in leadership and influence
What are your goals? How do you want to feel?
Let’s have a conversation about what success looks and feels like to you.
How does Consent Coaching work?
Consent Coaching is Person-Centered
Every person’s experience and needs are unique. People seek Consent Coaching for a variety of reasons, and the process is tailored to support their individual growth. While the core framework remains consistent, each coaching journey is shaped around the specific challenges and goals of the individual.
The first step is an initial phone call to discuss your situation, clarify your needs, and outline broad goals for the process.
In our first session, we focus on building trust, empathy, and good communication. With this foundation in place, we can map out the next steps and begin the deeper work.
What happens during a session?
Sessions take place in person or via video call, depending on what best supports the work. Some aspects of coaching, particularly those involving relationa practices, can only be done in person.
Each session begins with embodiment practices and a check-in, allowing you to land in your body for the session.
The coaching journey moves through several key phases, tailored to your individual needs:
- Embodiment – Developing somatic and emotional awareness.
- Self-Awareness – Examining your attitudes, patterns, motivations, and behaviors.
- Empathy – Recognizing the impact of your actions on others.
- Ownership – Taking responsibility, offering genuine apologies, and making meaningful repairs.
- Education – Deepening your understanding of consent, trauma, attachment, and power dynamics.
- Skill-Building – Strengthening your consent, communication, and boundary-setting practices.
- Self-Trust – Rebuilding confidence in your ability to navigate relationships with integrity.
- Accountability – Establishing a structure for long-term awareness and change.
- Commitment – Defining personal goals and taking actionable steps.
- Reintegration – Finding a grounded and ethical path forward.
- Exploring key concepts around consent, power, trauma, and relationships.
- Learning and practicing communication and consent techniques.
- Reviewing progress, setting goals, and making adjustments.
- Receiving emotional support in a structured and safe environment.
This process is designed to help you gain clarity, develop new skills, and move forward with confidence and integrity.
Who I work with
All different kinds of people seek Consent Coaching for many reasons. Everybody has their own unique mix of needs and challenges. I welcome your uniqueness!
Here are some examples of Consent Coaching clients:
People who have crossed boundaries and caused harm
- who want to take responsibility and learn healthier ways to engage.
- who want to repair their relationships
- who have been told to “do the work” by friends, partners, community leaders, etc.
People who have been excluded from events, groups and communities
- who are looking to rebuild trust and reintegrate with greater awareness.
- who need to use a formal process and want support
People who are lack confidence in social situations
- who struggle to read boundaries and social cues
- who were never taught clear consent practices and want to improve.
- who are re-entering spaces after some away, feel out of practice or want guidance in navigating new norms
Leaders, facilitators, and organizers
- who wan to weild their influence responsabily and with integrity
- who want to model strong consent practices for their community
- who want to lead strong, consent-focussed communities and prevent harm
Professionals working in touch-based or intimate settings
- Massage therapists, coaches, performers, and others who want to refine their approach to consent.
Neurodivergent individuals
- who struggle with reading nonverbal cues and want structured, explicit guidance.
Men seeking healthier ways to approach dating and intimacy
- who want to unlearn problematic conditioning
- who don’t want to cause harm
- who want to feel confident in their relating
- who want to establish wholesome connections
If you resonate with any of these groups, send me a message and see if Consent Coaching is right for you. If you have other needs that aren’t represented on this list, get in touch! I would love to see if I can support you.
Who is this coaching not for?
Consent Coaching is a space for self-reflection, learning, and growth. However, it is not a suitable service for:
People with a history of sexual violence, ongoing investigations, or criminal behavior
If this applies to you, I strongly encourage seeking professional legal, psychological, or restorative justice support.
Individuals experiencing significant mental health challenges or instability
If you are struggling with your mental well-being, I recommend reaching out to a qualified therapist or medical professional who can provide the right kind of support.
People who are not engaged in the process
Consent coaching requires active participation, openness, and accountability. If you are not ready to reflect, learn, and apply these skills, this may not be the right fit at this time.
If you’re unsure whether this is for you, feel free to reach out with any questions. My goal is to ensure that everyone gets the appropriate support for their needs.
I am delighted to work with all people without prejudice. This includes people of any ethnicity, cultural background, class, age, sex, gender, sexual orientation, relationship structure, body type, physical ability, neurodiversity etc.
I am sex-positive, a queer ally, poly-informed, and kink-informed.
Practicalities
The number of sessions needed depends on the individual and their cicumstances.
- Pay as you go: £100 for each 1.5 hour session
- 4 x sessions. £360 (£90 per session)
- 6 x sessions. £510 (£85 per session)
A limited number of concession sessions are available for individuals who are unwaged, on severely restricted incomes, or face significant financial challenges. If this applies to you, please get in contact to learn more.
A 50% deposit of is taken when booking, and final payment must be made before the session starts by bank transfer, PayPal, crypto or cash. Details available after booking is confirmed.
Disclaimer
I (Treasure) am only human. I have made mistakes, impacted others, and felt the impact on my own life. My personal growth journey around consent and communication was accelerated by these issues. This drove me to significant attitude and behavioural changes through learning and self-work. I take responsibility for my actions. A part of my journey forward is through Embrace Connections, to share the lessons I have learned so far and help prevent or support similar issues.
I am not a trained counselor, psychotherapist or medical practitioner. We must take care about approaching certain issues and conditions. If you have trauma and triggers, we can collaborate to work with/around them. Sometimes, the most appropriate solution is a 3rd party service instead. I can help signpost you to suitable alternatives. See the Safeguarding page for more details.
Please feel free to contact me directly HERE or send an anonymous message HERE. I am open to discourse without prejudice.